I'm sorry to hear that you and your ex have parted ways now. I want to let you know that I know what you going through. I doesn't matter what you do, everything reminds you of your ex and the good times that you had together. I want you to know that these feelings do get easier to cope with. Right now, I know it's hard to imagine ever doing anything constructive without your ex, but it takes some time. But what if your ex was truly the one for you? What if you aren't ready to give up on your ex and the relationship that the two of you had together? Both of these questions are valid questions to be having, and are both worthy of pursing further.
In this article I will fill you in on 3 fantastic tips from a relationship expert that have been proven time and time again to get your ex back. Let's take a look.
Getting Your Ex Back Tip 1
Give your ex some space. By giving your ex some room to breathe, you do, whether you want to believe it or not, improve your chances of getting back your ex. By giving your ex some space you are proving to them that you can cope with whatever life throws at you. By being strong it makes you more "attractive" to the would be seekers.
The time away also gives both you and your ex time to cool off a bit. After the dust has settled from the breakup you get a clear understanding of where you stand. During the time apart also does something else good for you as well, it makes each of you miss one another. I know you trying to forget how much you miss your ex, but them missing you is a good thing too. Think about it, if you are always around, how can your ex possibly miss you.
Getting Your Ex Back Tip 2
Now that you've broken contact for a bit, lets say a month, go ahead and make contact with your ex again. I don't mean show up the door unexpected and sit down and talk about the relationship. No, make a casual phone call to your ex just to say hello, and ask how they're doing. Your ex will completely understand you asking how they are doing, after all, you have been apart of one another's life for a while. Getting into relationship talk will however scare them away, and make them back off completely.
If this initial contact goes well, you're most likely in the clear for a second contact with your ex. This period of time is sort of like when you and your ex first started talking in the beginning of your relationship. You want to take things slowly to see how your ex feels. If things do go well, then react to these appropriately.
Getting Your Ex Back Tip 3
If after a few more contacts with your ex, the two of you decide to gives your relationship another shot, you're not out of the woods yet. Things can go sour real fast if the issues that caused the breakup in the first place aren't address immediately. You have to remember that relationships are a delicate balance of give and takes. You have to give before you can even think about taking anything back. You have to continuously work at them.
Getting back your ex takes time and the initial time after the breakup is a period for you to work on yourself and to make your ex miss you. If you follow these 3 tips from a relationship expert that has helped thousands of couples from around the world rekindle their relationships, you are sure to succeed.
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