Suffering a breakup is an experience that I know all too well. This isn't a lot of fun. It's tough to tell what's worse, if it's not being able to keep a relationship together or if it's the lonely empty feeling that comes from the breakup itself. Regardless of which it is, both stink. If you're reading this, then you've probably just gone through a the same heart wrenching experience and you're wishing there was some sort of way to get your ex back. Well let me tell you, there is a way. This article will help get you started.
The first part is probably the toughest part of the whole ordeal, you have to get your head on straight. I know, getting out and socializing or even doing anything constructive is the last thing that you want to do right now, but you've got to make baby steps towards a normal life again. Take baby steps, first just get up and go out, it doesn't have to be anywhere special. Go out and do some shopping, buy something for yourself,anything at all.
You'll be surprised with yourself here, sometimes when you force yourself to do something, you actually start to enjoy what it is that your doing. For example, when you first started going back out it was to just get out and pretend to be enjoying life, buy eventually you will actually start to enjoy life again. As you're enjoying life again, you will start to feel better again as well. Once this happens, you will be really happy and you'll find that you aren't feeling that need your ex as badly anymore.
Once this happens, your ex will notice. It's funny how this will happen, it's almost like they have some sort of sixth sense regarding it. See human nature is funny sometimes. When we see someone that we have broken up with is doing fine without us, it comes a major blow to our ego. You're ex will surprise you and want you back, they may not come right out and tell you directly, but they will.
This is the time to make your move. This starts by arranging a casual meeting with your ex, where you tell them you'd like a chance to try things again with them. Be calm about it, admit the mistakes that you made during the relationship. Don't place any blame on your ex, now wait for a reaction from your ex. The majority of the time, your ex will at this point take you back. Sometimes however this tactic doesn't work, but don't worry there are other methods.
Don't give up on your ex. Whether you believe it or not, they haven't given up on you!
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