Breaking up is definitely hard to do, as the old song says, but it doesn't have to be the end of the world. Breaking up with your ex can give you time to evaluate your life and make any needed changes that will make you more attractive for a spouse.
If you and your ex broke up and your attempting a reconciliation with then you need to take action. Sitting back doing nothing isn't going to assist you with getting your ex back, nor will blaming your ex for the break up.
Every relationship has two people involved in it. Agreed, well let's move on then. Their are two peoples emotions and needs that need to be attended to. I've read articles, where authors have suggested as a way at getting your ex back is to make them jealous. I've read advice that people have stated you should start seeing someone else and this will make them want you back. This method is supposed to make them want to get back together with you asap. Remember at the beginning of this paragraph when I mentioned two peoples needs and emotions, hurting your ex definitely isn't going to help you with getting back together with her/him. If your ex is the type of person that would come running back to you after finding out that your with someone else, then they don't have too much self esteem and is weak willed.
Human nature dictates that we want what we can't have. Does that sound familiar to you? It definitely sounds familiar to me, and I have heard this all my life. We love a challenge, you don't want something too easily, regardless of what you say right now, you want a challenge. How many times have you heard someone break up and upon someone asking why the response is, They were too clingy. This is a huge character flaw that resides in a lot of people. The constant need for love and attention, and when we get a little of it, we hang on for dear life to that person.
Self confidence and independence is the truly attractive trait that most people are after. So if you were the one that was too clingy, then take this time to work on yourself. During this time practice your confidence, yes I'm sure this is going to be tough as your ex just broke up with, but this is an important step in getting them back.
Some times you have to be like Cris Angel the magician to get my ex back. Well I'm sure you're no Cris Angel, but I can provide to you The Magic of Making Up as a proven method to help in your task.
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